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Post by melymel on Feb 18, 2014 18:29:50 GMT -5
As i have said before i was getting over the breakup of a violent relationship,felt suicidal lonely depressed etc and wanted to feel my time with hobbies, intersests etc and thought why not kill to birds with 1 stone..if you pardon the expression...and help somebody who is in a similar situation as me or worse and what could be worse,someone facing death and once you select that person...which takes time...without the day to day challenges of life, with out confrontation,appearence,pressure etc etc you can gradually open up and get to know each other and form a proper frienship, My friend supported me threw the breakdoen of my relationship, my drug addition my fertitlity treatment.my bereavment, Best friend i ever had,no body can understand until you are in our poisition but i understand where you are coming from!
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Post by illusionist on Apr 4, 2014 13:42:06 GMT -5
My situation might be a little similarity with melymel. But it was not personal situation. I'm Japanese and at Mar.11.2011,Even I'm not living in massive damage area,I was totally shocked. I've been indirectly supported people in DR(very little),But till then,I was not brave enough.
Then,my brain was really blank,and browsing Penpal ad,and I felt curious for one of ad.He said he was having difficult time to find a penpal,
Before that,me too,barely survived violent relationship.My friend survived extreme abuse continued since before he became 2 years old.
My friend's situation is serious,beyond my situation,but still he says "You need help same to me".
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Post by illusionist on Apr 4, 2014 13:44:37 GMT -5
Also,I can say, "Sometimes or many times,the worst person is not in prison,nor getting DP."
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