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Post by ela on Nov 1, 2005 8:27:57 GMT -5
Hey, it is me, Ela. I have been on this board for many months but many of you new posters probably don't know me becouse I decided to not post in the last period, becouse I was pretty tired about all the crap I was seing around between people on here.
Could we please give up this stupid fight? I have a suggestion for both sides:
Just don't go to boards that you don't like... instead of go there ( in both sides) just to create troubles, discussions and unrespectful and unuseful fights. I don't like the prodeathpenalty forum, I just don't go there; the same should be for those who don't like it here; is it so difficult?
Communication is welcome to me, and I know sometimes it is hard to find a point in common between the 2 sides of the thing, but please, when we realize that we can not keep it clean... just give up. I have been reading very bad and hurtful things... I don't like it at all. I have lost control one time since I have been here, and I have called a person "psycopath"... I am still sorry about this... and I realize it was not the right thing to say.Since then, when I can not handle it.. I just give up, go away,make a deep breath and try to smile.
Have a good day you all. love, Ela
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Post by Mo-DAWG on Nov 1, 2005 8:38:53 GMT -5
Hey, it is me, Ela. I have been on this board for many months but many of you new posters probably don't know me becouse I decided to not post in the last period, becouse I was pretty tired about all the crap I was seing around between people on here. Could we please give up this stupid fight? I have a suggestion for both sides: Just don't go to boards that you don't like... instead of go there ( in both sides) just to create troubles, discussions and unrespectful and unuseful fights. I don't like the prodeathpenalty forum, I just don't go there; the same should be for those who don't like it here; is it so difficult? Communication is welcome to me, and I know sometimes it is hard to find a point in common between the 2 sides of the thing, but please, when we realize that we can not keep it clean... just give up. I have been reading very bad and hurtful things... I don't like it at all. I have lost control one time since I have been here, and I have called a person "psycopath"... I am still sorry about this... and I realize it was not the right thing to say.Since then, when I can not handle it.. I just give up, go away,make a deep breath and try to smile. Have a good day you all. love, Ela hi ela...you are very right with your post ....but well you know some people just cant stay away if they dontlike a certain board ...they feel so provoked by the different points of view on that board that the only way to get rid off their frustration is to come here and post ..,.is that a sign of weakness? yes it is...it just shows that some people just cant deal with anger..frustration or whatever...so their only way to release themselves is to come over and vent ...yups thats pretty uncontrolled and a sign of weakness but well... so what... the mods delete the mob ... of course pros can come here if they feel like debating and we have several pros here who i like to discuss with ...but well ...with these pros theres always also a certain handfull of hysterical mobsters coming here... you just cant have the cow if you dont want the turds on the willow... Mo-DAWG |
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Post by judywaits4u on Nov 1, 2005 18:01:54 GMT -5
I think I shall probably stay away and ignore that other place because they make me so angry with their ignorance. I still believe what i said there though: That many of them there are would be murderers but do not have balls to pull the trigger themselves. They remind of the film I saw recently of chimps committing murder. This was not a hunt but chimps murdering another chimp.
Love and hugs,
Judy
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Post by ela on Nov 1, 2005 20:13:00 GMT -5
My job and my life itself learnt me that if I open my mouth every time I feel anger against something or someone it can hurt something or someone else. It is normal to be emotionally involved, but it is also necessary to keep it under control... if you don't want to hurt people and if you want to respect others independently on differences between all of us. It doesn't mean that I have NO opinions; of course I do have, but there is a thin line between opinions and judgment. I don't like judgment. Telling someone he is stupid is not an opinion; it's a judgement. I am talking first of all for myself; I mean, this is just how I try to behave and to live. respect the differences and above all try to not allow people to take out from me all those negative feelings I try to fight everyday. I don't want hate in me, I don't want anger in me, I don't want violence in me under any shape, verbally too. I am a peaceful person, I am against violence and this is how I want to learn to live; no matter what I will have back,none would take me down on this. Never. It is hard but I am trying.
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Post by hazel on Nov 2, 2005 4:59:21 GMT -5
I think I shall probably stay away and ignore that other place because they make me so angry with their ignorance. I still believe what i said there though: That many of them there are would be murderers but do not have balls to pull the trigger themselves. They remind of the film I saw recently of chimps committing murder. This was not a hunt but chimps murdering another chimp. Love and hugs, Judy Judy you already said you are leaving the pro boards but yet you are still posting there. If you dont wish people to keep on insulting you then stop hurling insults at other people all the time. You posted a link to your webpage that you made all about yourself. The things you wrote on there are like personal. I for one would not go putting anything that personal about myself online for all and sundry to read. You are leaving yourself open to insults and backlash from people. So if you are not going to post on the pro boards anymore then dont. Dont keep going back and back and posting more and more because the people over there will just throw more things your way. You are the maker of your own actions judy and no one else. Hazel |
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Post by attitude on Nov 2, 2005 5:17:14 GMT -5
I would agree with this post.... I think I shall probably stay away and ignore that other place because they make me so angry with their ignorance. I still believe what i said there though: That many of them there are would be murderers but do not have balls to pull the trigger themselves. They remind of the film I saw recently of chimps committing murder. This was not a hunt but chimps murdering another chimp. Love and hugs, Judy Judy you already said you are leaving the pro boards but yet you are still posting there. If you dont wish people to keep on insulting you then stop hurling insults at other people all the time. You posted a link to your webpage that you made all about yourself. The things you wrote on there are like personal. I for one would not go putting anything that personal about myself online for all and sundry to read. You are leaving yourself open to insults and backlash from people. So if you are not going to post on the pro boards anymore then dont. Dont keep going back and back and posting more and more because the people over there will just throw more things your way. You are the maker of your own actions judy and no one else. Hazel |
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Post by laurauk on Nov 2, 2005 5:37:11 GMT -5
it is a good point and should be directed at alot of people on the other board as well.bently and others have opened themselves up and told personal info,which if fair enough but why then keep going back to the one board which you know can really hurt you?only gop to that board if you can handle the back lash that you might have to endure
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Post by hazel on Nov 2, 2005 5:48:15 GMT -5
I learned my lesson a while back now. I told someone something about my life in a IM and before i knew it they had people. So now i only tell people about my life if i know them well enough. It saves people having a pop at me about something in my life. And you never really know who is who online. So i always think its better to be safe than sorry when using the internet
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Post by laurauk on Nov 2, 2005 5:59:36 GMT -5
well said hazel and very true,you might say one thing in private to some one and hey presto the next day every one knows it but its completely taken out of text and i really do think that what happens.people are made out to look bad and they arent,people are made out to be something they arent and they are really probably great people
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Post by attitude on Nov 2, 2005 6:43:13 GMT -5
As far as personal information goes..... Some people just like to let it all hang out and then you find you need to walk around on egg shells so you don't hurt that persons feelings..... this can be however very annoying... However, I know Benty seems to have some sort of fire up his back side but I would also suggest that accusing him of being a closet gay is a bit out of line....as well as those stooopid spellin flames I saw earlier....  |
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Post by laurauk on Nov 2, 2005 6:59:07 GMT -5
thats true but maybe then if bently would stop calling people bastards and all the other obcene things he dreams up he wouldnt be called horrid things,bently really is his worst enemy and i think he loves all the name calling,he just cant helphimself.lets be honest here,would you go to a certain board if you knew you were going to be called names and your feelings got hurt?i think now its got to the stage with him where he truely cannot stop himself coming over here for a good name slanging match,maybe he feels better afterwards and then can carry on.?i dont know but he has to remember what sort of board this is.he rants on and on about his feelings on the pro board and how antis disrespect hiim, well it works both ways,we all know that,best thing to do bently is to stay away
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Post by sdl on Nov 2, 2005 16:45:56 GMT -5
thats true but maybe then if bently would stop calling people bastards and all the other obcene things he dreams up he wouldnt be called horrid things,bently really is his worst enemy and i think he loves all the name calling,he just cant helphimself.lets be honest here,would you go to a certain board if you knew you were going to be called names and your feelings got hurt?i think now its got to the stage with him where he truely cannot stop himself coming over here for a good name slanging match,maybe he feels better afterwards and then can carry on.?i dont know but he has to remember what sort of board this is.he rants on and on about his feelings on the pro board and how antis disrespect hiim, well it works both ways,we all know that,best thing to do bently is to stay away Benty is like his idol Bush. Can't mind his business, has to inseret himself where he's not liked and is compelled to try and force his neo-fascist views on everyone. |
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Post by laurauk on Nov 2, 2005 16:58:34 GMT -5
i dont personally care who his idol is ,i would love to be m monroe but its not going to happen.as i keep saying he is drawn to this board and seems to like the slanging matches.all we can hope is that as time goes on he will get bored with us and focus his views and anger on some thing else.hey bently would you like to help me with my campaign to save the whales and dolphins?i am a great advocate of this and need all help
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Post by ela on Nov 4, 2005 10:34:45 GMT -5
It looks like the fight is not going to stop.
Well, I tried my best.
have fun giys!
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